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female
age
26-29,
*loveyhoo
writes:My friend who i have been friends with for 3 years now, has just left my school. shes only going to another school at the other end of my town, but I'm going to really miss her! We've been best friends through out. But the thing is the new school she is going too is really different compared to my school, and I have this feeling in the pit of my stomach that shes going to change. Obviously she is going to change, but i think shes going to change in a bad way. I really want to keep in contact with her, and still go on holiday with her like we said we would, as we went before , but I really don't know if this will work.Loads of my other friends told me to just leave it, we made the most of our memories, if she dont want to keep in touch then she wont. but I can't bare this! I can just see this happeningWhat can i do to stop our friendship falling apart now shes gone. This is so emotional for me!
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reader, Priyanka09  +, writes (21 September 2010):
 Hey,Dont be so sure shell change. Even if she has gone to school different from yours, she has her own set of values and her parents. Her basic nature will remain the same. So its not necessary for everyone to get affected by bad surroundings. I am sure her parents will keep a check on how her daughter grows. So you dont need to worry about that. Further, I am sure if she is your best she will also not let this friendship fade. She will also make all the efforst for this friendship to last forever. How about starting to write to each other. This way you guys can be in touch. Exchange emails with each other, everyday. You will know whats going on in her life, and she will know yours. And, if she continues to take time to write to you, you know for sure she is here to stay and wont let you go.
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