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writes:Whats the matter with me?Ok im 14-17 and a female im really shy i bearly say a word in public unless im at home.And now im just wondering why im so shy or even more around this one guy hes a year older then me and my best friends brother. I look at him a everyone cantell im blushing hard.Then he looks at me and I turn away quickly am i just weird or am i crushing on him?Next my so called crush says to my best friend that he thinks i like him or is trying to find out what am i suppose to doplease help me and all advice is welcome -NightRader
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reader, NightRader +, writes (2 October 2010):
NightRader is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy ex boyfriend is too clingy.
When I broke up with him he begged for me to take him back literally but I said no.He lied about his age. Then I start writing names of my friends on my hands from last year of school and he accuses me of breaking up with him because i found someone new! Then i explain tohim that I haven't seen my friends since last year and now he says sorry, but I don't think i can stay in a relationship with someone who can trust me.
Then I start totally falling for this guy a year older then me is little sister and me are best friends. So of course she thinks I should tell. Then my ex boyfriend over hears me and her talking about him now he wants to no who it is. And I don't plan opn telling him.
Now there are rumors of my best friend and my ex going out i thnk thats great (he might finally get off my case),but when I ask them they deny it. And my says that he's still in love with me.
And I don't Know how to tll give him the idea that im not interested anymore!
PLEASE HELP ME IM ABOUT TO CRACK
-NightRader
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reader, Capthx +, writes (20 September 2010):
Its natural for people your age to feel that way. Heck, im in my 20s now and i still blush when i talk to a cute girl. I still consider myself to be pretty shy. The best advice i can give is to not let it take control of your life. If the guy is talking to people to see if you like him, chances are he might feel the same way.
Don't go down the same road i went when i was your age. You will never know how people feel unless you ask them. I found out much later in life that a few of the girls i liked in high school actually felt the same way about me, but i was a shy and paranoid person, so id look at the good things and assume they were bad.
The only way you will overcome being shy is by getting yourself out there and asking this guy you like out.
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