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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi. At school, we are made to sit in register order in most of my classes and this means I end up sitting next to the guy I like in some of my lessons. He knows I like him and he likes me too. Hes pretty confident and so he'll happily flirt with me or whatever in front of the other people sat on our tables. I really love sitting with him but I feel a little bit blank. I have completly no idea how to act towards him. Its the only time I get to be that close with him really.I want to know if there is there anything I can do??For exmaples: He sits really close to me and when he puts his hands on the desk he leaves it right next to mine. Also when hes talking to me he tends to rest his hand on my arm or something. If I go quiet he looks right into my eyes and smiles at me and asks if I am alright or something. If nobody's having a conversation with me he always talks to me and tries to make me laugh. If the whole class is quiet he sometimes leans over to me and whispers a comment about how un normally quiet it is or something. . . If you have any tips on what I can do or whatever please say, I will really appreciate any help as I think this is a pretty good opportunity for us to spend some time together and I dont want to mess it up by making him think that maybe I dont like him as much as he thinks I do!In case you were wondering, don't worry I don't waste "valuable lesson time" by flirting with him, I do get on with my work as well :Dxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): hi,
i read your message and i had the same problem, this guy always talked to me and walks with me to lessons. he was flirting with me to, so what i did is just looked into his eyes, all the time, if he looks away say im sorry, if he likes you he should say "no it is ok".
Try to make conversation by asking him stuff like what is your favourite colour, then when he answers, comment about it, for instance if it is blue say "you know they say that intelligent people like blue" it usually works.
let me know if this helps.
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