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30-35,
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writes:dear cupid, i've just started 6th form at my school and we have quite a few new people and i have become quite good friends with two of them. One of them a girl really likes the other and told me so but i really like this guy too i havent told her so because i dont want to hurt her or loose her friendship what should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2010): If you don't want to lose her friendship, then yes, move on and find another guy that interests you. Gosh, at your age, young females date and break up with numerous young fellows, in the path to finding the one that suits them best.
But good friendships are usually something females cherish for many, many years to come. Which is more important to you? The friendship with this girl or dating the guy, she has confided in you that she has a crush on?
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reader, Ven  +, writes (18 October 2010):
You have choices based on how much you like her as a friend and how attracted you are to the guy:
- Decide that the guy is is off-limits. This way you are guaranteed to never hurt your girlfriend.
- Decide to go for him anyway. He will either be into you or not, but if he is then she needs to deal with it.
- Decide to wait it out. He may decide to date her, or come after you, or even decide that he is more into other guys. The benefit here is that you aren't going to act in a way that may hurt your girlfriend.
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