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writes:I met a man 2 months ago we met and everything was great he calls me everyday. I've noticed in the last 2 weeks he doesnt call me as much. so the other night i noticed he was upset. he hasnt had a job in a few months. He told me it has nothing to do with me he is stressed out really bad. I havent heard from him in 2 days. What should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (10 September 2010):
 He probably wants to be alone and doesn't want to go complaining to you about not having a job. Also, he probably thinks you're tired of hearing about it. I would call him and offer words of encouragement, or take him out for a few drinks to take the edge off..Yeah, the economy still sucks, shouldn't we be out of this turmoil by now since we have Obama? They're actually talking about us dipping further into the recession..Jobs aren't a dime a dozen like they used to be, even college graduates are having to take second rate jobs that don't even apply to their bachelor's degree. It's a time where we're going to take what we can get it, most are still unemployed or bouncing from temp job to temp job. The only thing he can do is stay positive, pray, and keep putting that resume out there.
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reader, celisse +, writes (10 September 2010):
call him and set up a date to get his mind off his troubles. do everything he likes, favorite food with his favorite music playing, stuff like that. show him that he can turn to you when hes upset or worried about something
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