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writes:im a nineteen year old girl n im worried that i mite be pregnant. I did nt get my monthly which i suppose to get at the end of last mnth/begining of this month. It is the 9th of the month already n still nothing. Im studying 4my b.com in business management and on my second year already. My family is very strict. They have layed down rules to wen i should have a child, n they say after 21 i can have children. Im so scared n worried that this mite upset them. My bf is excited, he wants a child. I want children but not now. I dont think im physically, mentally emotionally or financially ready 4 a baby. I have nt told anybody.. Only u who is reading knows. Im so scared.. What should i do? Who do i please? My parents? My bf? Or myself? Im lost.. Please find me. All the advice would really help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank u tisha
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (11 September 2010):
 You can take that test now, you could have as soon as you missed your period. Go to http://www.plannedparenthood.org for a referral or see your doctor if you need more medical guidance! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks girls, bt cn i take a pregnancy test nw? Dnt u have to wait a mnth or so. U girls are like an older sister i neva had. Thank u so much.
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reader, banjopicker +, writes (10 September 2010):
I agree with Tisha-1. Take the test. If it's positive, you are over 18, so legally you do not need their consent for an abortion. They may be strict but they are human and made mistakes growing up. You may be surprised how much they will support you. See your doctor asap.
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (10 September 2010):
 I agree with Tisha-1, get a test first. Before I was on the pill, I had irregular periods quite often and you could be having one also. My friend, who IS on the pill, still gets irregular periods about once a year or so. If you are pregnant, I would recommend seeing a counselor if you are this worried about everything. While the people on this site can you give you good advice, a counselor will allow you to vent any worries or frustration which could help you make a better decision that is right for you. Best of luck.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (10 September 2010):
Before you try to figure out the answers to all those questions, I think it would be sensible to make sure you ARE pregnant. Get a pregnancy test and see. Or make an appointment with your gynecologist.
Once you know if you are pregnant, then you can come back and ask for further advice! Good luck.
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