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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey...am 18 years old and theres this guy, he doesnt work at my workplace permanently, but he just comes in like 3 times a week for just a little while. I dont know very much about him, but i am attracted to him. We had small general conversation but nothing personal quiet a few times. But how lately his all i think about... my mind is so lost in thoughts of him and whats freaky is that ''every time'' i thought of him he either just showed up at the office or he called up the office asking 4 someone. I really would like to get to know him better but i dont know if he is at least fancies me? And i cant exactly ask him cause what if his just being friendly and dont wanna spoil things. And he's 7 years older than me. I really dont know what to do. Please help !!!
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (30 October 2010):
Ok its a bit to soon to tell him how you feel as this might scare him away especially when you dont really no each other that well at the moment, but what i would suggest is the next time he is in ask him would he like to have lunch with you on your break or maybe even catch a cup off coffee when you are finished work, at least this way it shows you are being friendly but it also might show him that you are interested and it might be a move in the right direction.
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