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30-35,
anonymous
writes:There's a guy at work who I've recently developed feelings for and I'm wondering if he's starting to return them. He teases me a little bit more than the other girls at work, often in a more childish way, like knocking what I'm working on over or conversations ending in us both flipping each other off. The other day he advised me to do something in another way as my face was too pretty for anything to happen to it, and then mumbled something that I couldn't quite hear.One conversation we had recently was quite interesting, we were talking philosophy and then he started to liken something to people "our age", realised what he said and laughed awkwardly, because he's actually a fair bit older than me. The conversation ended abruptly as I was called through to another room to help, and I noticed a few minutes later he followed me through there and started to work on a nearby computer. And those are just some of the things he does, sometimes he'll accidentally and purposely touch me, whether its on my shoulder or his hand lingers on mine for a moment longer than it should.I dunno, what do you think? Is he interested?
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reader, Carriesaunderson +, writes (10 September 2010):
By the sounds of things , he's interested.
Guys are one of the most difficult things to read , there strange yet wonderful creations.
You just need to keep an eye out for more signs such as always finding a way to talk to you, showing up in places that you are , catching him looking at you either looking away straight away or lingering for just a few seconds , maybe even ending with a smile. The fact that he's tried to touch you shows he interested , he see's this as a way of getting closer to you and feeling you .
Maybe not sexually maybe it just gives him some comfort that he knows that your around. Keep trying but its important to take things slowly , you dont want to rush into things with anyone , love takes time to grow and if its meant to be , nothing will stop it:) goodluck
love carrie x
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reader, Kenj +, writes (10 September 2010):
 Yes he is probably interested. Giving compliments like that dont happen unless he has motive.
Maybe suggest one night after work to go for a drink together. You should guage his reaction from that.
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