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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Me and my boyfriend started dated only 9 days ago. We like each other a lot. We do the normal boyfriend girlfriend stuff, hold hands, kiss, etc. Well he's my first boyfriend ever. We barely ever talk to each other when we're with each other. Usually its just quiet and we're just there together. I think its mainly cause we're shy, atleast I know I am. Before we started dating I felt depressed and lonley. But when we started dating, the first couple of days that went away. But now its back. I always think negatively. So I always think when I see him, he'll be with another girl, flirting. I know he wouldn't do this, cause he's not the cheater type. I do trust he won't do that, but my negative thoughts make me believe he will. I don't know if this problem is us, or just me. Its hard to explain the way I feel.The other problem is, I think its not going to last long. And I don't know why, I don't want to break up with him. But like yesterday, he ignored me and spoke to his friend when he was pose to be walking me to my class, and hes done it once before. I don't know if this is going to be a habbit. I hope it won't, I really like him and from what I've heard, he really likes me.I don't know if the reason I feel like this is cause he's my first boyfriend, or if its not. Like I've said before, Its hard to explain this. And I've never told anyone this. So, I'm hoping someone will know what I'm talking about. And If you do, please help me. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010): you're young and this is your first foray into dating. It will not last, and frankly shouldn't. Neither of you are old enough to understand what is going on and this will be a wonderful, scary, and disappointed relationship, as will probably the majority of relationships you have. But in the mean time take the advice of yuuhandme and enjoy the excitement and treat him as a friend.
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reader, yuuhandme  +, writes (10 September 2010):
sounds like depression and jealousy mixed. Youre probably neurotic about this and its all new to you, ive been in that situation before almost exactly and i know how you feel. when the relationship starts moving along the tracks you'll feel the excitement, treat him as a close friend/ best friend. hope this helps!
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