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writes:Me and my bf have only been together a couple months but have already been through so much together. He tells me he loves me and I won't lose him but last night he told me that part of him wants to be with me and part of him don't. What does that mean? He has 2 children with his ex and she causes a lot of problems and its taking a file on our relationship. I love him and fell in love with him and he says he loves me and fell in love with me. What do I do? Do I stay with him and see where things go or do I leave him and try to move on?[Mod note: please do not use textspeak abbreviations, such as 'n' instead of 'and'. Thank you.]
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reader, tammye17 +, writes (10 September 2010):
 Me and my bf have only been together a couple months but have already been through so much together. He tells me he loves me and I won't lose him but last night he told me that part of him wants to be with me and part of him don't. What does that mean? He has 2 children with his ex and she causes a lot of problems and its taking a file on our relationship. I love him and fell in love with him and he says he loves me and fell in love with me. What do I do? Do I stay with him and see where things go or do I leave him and try to move on?
How old is your bf and how long after he got separated did he get involved withyou? if everything happened too quicky he may be overwhelmed. He also sounds confused, I'am pretty sure he means that he loves you but he probaly feels like you are soo young to be involved in his drama with 2 children. I say you support him and be there for him if you love him but if its hurting you emotionally then you need to evaluate whether this is healthy for YOU. YOU come first
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): Leave him and move on. If you are having issues this early into your relationship it is a bad sign. This is the "courtship" phase of your relationship and if you can't make it work during that part forget about it and move on. Bite the bullet. Good luck.
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