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writes:I am deeply in love with this girl. We dated in 5th grade and we started talking again last school year. She is the perfect girl for me, her personality is so much like mine and she is so beautiful. She just broke up with her boyfriend of a year and a half about a month ago, and doesnt know if shes ready to date yet. I really want to ask her out but im afraid, any other time im completely confident with her about anything, but i just dont want to get rejected and i want to do it at the right time. I feel very strongly for this girl; shes so hard to read because she is so relaxed and "chill" about things. She was my first for just abouteverything too. and before you judge she is not that kind of girl. she was the first girl i held, the first girl i madeout with, and the first and only girl i've ever had sex with, i lost my virginity to her on my 16th birthday last month. I dont know exactly how she feels about me because she doesnt express her feelings as heavily as a lot of other girls do, but i do know that she likes me a lot and knows i care deeply and would do anything for her.
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reader, Ven +, writes (19 October 2010):
I'm sorry, I need a better timeline here:
You both dated in the 5th grade: how long did that last?
She broke up a month ago AND you two had sex about a month ago?
I would think sex means she is in to you enough to at least talk to you about your relationship. Be straight-forward with her and let her know you want to date. She can either accept or reject you now, or do it later. Waiting for years, or waiting for the "right moment" won't change that answer.
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