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writes: We have been with my boyfriend for two and half years. we have been arguing alot and suddenly he told me we should be friends. i wanted to be with him. I miss him .I'ts been a week and he haven't called yet. please help me . should I forget about him move on or wait for him. please help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): Hi. I think you should ring him and ask where you stand. You say he hasn't rang you for a week, but don't say if you have rang him. If you talk to him calmly and ask if he wants to move on from you, or if he wants to try again. He may have spoken in anger and not meant what he said.
If he is distant however, or less than enthusiastic about your relationship, then read between the lines and move on yourself. He may actually confirm that he doesn't want you. In any of these circumstances respect yourself and move on. If he says he was hasty and still loves you, then you must both talk and agree to be thoughtful to each others needs and feelings, and hopefully the future for you can be bright.
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