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writes:Hey..I've got a question. How do you know when you're ready for a relationship?I'm in highschool and I'm sixteen, and there's this awesome guy. We're just friends but everyone thinks he is my boyfriend. He thought I had a boyfriend, which is not true (the last time I was in a relationship was like a year ago, and we broke up like a month after we got together), so I told him that wasnt true. Today I found out that he told a friend of mine that he hadn't been brave enough to kiss me or ask me out only because he thought I was dating someone else. So that was like OMG I really thought we were just friends and that he wasnt that into me.His name is James and he is SOOO cool, we have been spending a lot of time together recently, during which, he holds my hand, he plays with my hair, he hugs me and today he traced the shape of my lips with his finger! I almost pee on myself!! hahathe thing is... what if he kisses me? what if he ask me to be his girlfriend?Am I ready for this?I mean, with my last boyfriend everything was so complicated cos my mum is christian and she would't aprove a non-christian boyfriend to star with (my ex bf wasn't, she did not like it but she accepted it) also, she wouldn't let me be alone with him and blah blah.so I don't want to screw this.I mean I think I really like him...but I don't know how to do this!
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (10 September 2010):
 I wasn't allowed to date till I was 16, believe me I was more than ready! You've let some time pass since your ex and it sounds to me like you're ready to go out with this guy. He definitely likes you, hopefully he asks you out soon! Your mother can't pick and choose who you date, that's your choice. Whomever you choose she will just have to accept him...maybe she will even grow to like him. Non-Christians aren't bad people they just have a different denomination or none at all. I can understand your mom protecting you and hoping you make the right decisions. She's just wants the best for you, and none of my parents liked my boyfriends either..Just relax, continue to flirt away till he asks you out!
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