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writes:HiI am seeing this guy for the past 1 year. FOr the past 2 months we are in LDR (Long distance relationship) since i moved to different location cause of my work. Would return back after 3-4 months. For nearly 2 weeks my bf is acting really weird. We used to talk in a daily basis. As usual when i called him a week before, he never picked up the call. I treid several times. Then thought he needed space or somrthing so didnt call him for a week. He also didnt call me and was never online in IM. Yesterday he was online but didnt chat with me. I wasite for an hour for him to initiate the chat which he never did. I pinged him and asked him wat hpnd. He said he was sick a week. and asked me to call him at his night. I called him he said he is very tired cant talk to me and asked me to call in the morning and i did and said he is busy with his friends and asked me to call after 2 hours and again after 2 hrs i called him, first the mobile was in not reachable area and when i tried again it was swiched off. I really dont know what to think of it. DO you think he might have broken up with me. Even No contact didnt work out with him. When i didnt contact for a week he didnt contact me too. Please advice me what to do. I love him very much and i dont want to lose him at all. Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (10 September 2010):
 I'd say he's already broken up with you without your knowledge. How rude, you're in a LDR for god's sakes he could have given you a phone call out, he at least owes you that. Or an email breaking up with you if he can't handle the phone/text, what a wuss. Here's the thing about LDRs communication is key in order it to work, if either party (not pointing fingers but usually the male) continues to struggle in communication then consider the relationship as good as done. Because what else do you have, you can't see or touch him, all that's left is to talk. Now, I can understand if he's in Afghanistan getting blow up..but if he's busy at work/college, sick whatever excuse then taking a minute of their day to send you a text couldn't hurt.
Another thing it's easy to break up in a LDR , cut off contact all together you don't have to see that person or awkwardly run into them at a friend's get together. Out of sight, out of mind. If he loved you like you love him then he wouldn't be doing this to you now would he? He doesn't care if you cut off contact you tried out that route, and he still won't talk to you when you try to talk to him. Sorry but it's over, you need to comprehend that.
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