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writes: I may be a virgin but I don't want to be ill prepared for my first time. So I have been doing research onto sexual techniques and what could make sex better. Since I want to make my first time fun for her as well, I thought this site would be a good place for feedback.SO my question is, does exercising the kegel, the muscle that restricts the flow of urine, really can help increase sexual stamina? I saw that here: http://sex.healthguru.com/content/browse/cid/41/sid/77/Sex_Skills/Training_for_Better_Sex I also appreciate any info or links to show me how to pleasure her.
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reader, ashaw +, writes (10 September 2010):
Just worry about the love part first. Part of the fun of sex is discovering together. I'm not saying that you can't learn some things from somewhere else, but that shouldn't be your focus, and porn certainly could teach you some inaccuracies.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (10 September 2010):
Watching porn can give you some pointers. Yes holding the muscel can increase pleasure at the point of ejeculation.
Porn links something like tube8 dot com theres loads out there.
Google for sex tips I am sure there are loads.
Dont have any high expectations of sex everyone is different you may not even achieve ejaculation the first time and she may not orgasm either but dont let that discourage you. On the other hand it may all be different.
Above all try and relax and enjoy it.
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