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Am I overthinking this friend request?

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Question - (10 September 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 10 September 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I am married and I'm a model.Recently i did a phoshoot with a guy for one of my jobs.We had a few hours together on the set so we chatted and hungout, we talked about our families, home countries etc etc.He seemed like a nice family guy and his girl friend was pregnant with their first baby.I saw him on facebook with two of my friends and added him few days later.I'm just a friendly person and love socializing and meeting new people, I'm friends with other models etc.He hasn't responded yet and I'm beggining to think if i did something too stupid by sending him a friend request? I'm bit of an over thinker but wouldn't want to come across as cheesy.Did i do something stupid?

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (10 September 2010):

chigirl agony auntNo, you didn't do anything stupid. If he doesn't want to add you as a friend then that is okay too, but no need to feel embarrassed by it. You were just friendly. Besides, he might just not recognize who you are/hasn't been on facebook lately, or for some other reason hasn't accepted it. Don't get offended or bothered by it, after all you barely go to know him, it wouldn't be too much of a loss if he doesn't accept.

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (10 September 2010):

Basschick agony auntNot all married men who have a facebook account want to invite trouble into their lives by "friending" other women. Why not take it as a sign that he's not interested in keeping in contact with you and move on. I think you were looking for more.

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A female reader, sammi star United Kingdom +, writes (10 September 2010):

sammi star agony auntNo you didn't do anything wrong. Maybe he hasn't been online? Even if he has and didn't respond, so what? Don't stress about it, theres plenty more people out there to meet!

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A female reader, celisse United States +, writes (10 September 2010):

not at all, besides think about it,, what if hes just busy with another photoshoot or something. or spending time with his family? you never know so just relax and dont worry about it

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