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writes:HiMy Girl Friend whom ive been with for roughly 5+ years dropped the "I want a break" bomb on me.Im obviously devastated after everything we have been through over the years.She met another guy and this I know cause of the text messages etc.But she still acts really weird in a way that she doesn't want to lose me completely instead keep me on a string just in case the new guy doesn't do it for her.Its been 2 weeks now and weve been constantly texting sometimes phoning her.We still use the names we use to call each other.If have already done something wrong please let me know.I have already said "If you made your mind up please let me know" and I dont know if I should tell her " sorry youre going to lose me" cause that will just force her into taking or leaving me for good.I really really need the help.We use to love each other to bits.Right before I left she told me that there's nobody els that she would love as my as she loves me.I started ignoring her since today and I would like to keep it up but I have no idea if its the right thing to do and if its already to late to start doing this?can someone please help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010): dude... ignoring her isn't the issue; she has another interest she wants to go explore. Bottom line is she had the decency to not cheat on you behind your back and then kick you to the curb; she is kicking you to the curb and then going out. That is the right thing for her to do. As far as you are concerned, get all your guy friends together, go get drunk and start the grieving process. She is gone, and if she isn't you don't want her back because she just left you for a stranger after being with you for 5 years. She sucks a fat one. Good luck.
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