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writes:I have this guy friend. We are pretty good friends. we met our first year in college and found out we had several mutual friends, so we became friends instantly. We flirted and hung out for a year. I dropped out of that school and went to a different school to change majors and moved back home. We are still not that far away from each other and hang out still. Our hometowns are next to each other,so when he comes home we hang out, and sometimes i go where he is. One day, at the end of summer, i was a little intoxicated and he took care of me, didn't take advantage of me or anything. after that night, it felt like we grew closer. We flirted a lot more, and talked about deeper things and talk a lot now. I do not want to risk our friendship by making it awkward. I get a feeling he could be hiding his feelings too to not ruin the friendship, that's kind of his personality. How do i tell him i have strong feelings for him? I don't take rejection good, and i have not told a guy i've had feelings for a guy in 2 1/2 years, i've given up. And also i don't want to be rejected again and give up on men for good. I need a confidence booster!!!! and some advice how to tell him! please!
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 December 2010):
 You just tell him and take that risk. I'm guessing you have reason to believe he likes you?
EVERYONE faces rejection in their life, whether it's from a guy, girl, college, job interview..we all go through it. You learn how to deal with it, and to let it roll off your back. I wouldn't pour out your feelings, guys don't handle that well. Just tell him you'd like to get to know him better and more of a personal note, maybe seeing where it could lead and if he's in. If he rejects you, the worse he could say is he'd like to keep it as friends. So what, his loss. Next guy, please. You move on, you get over it. College is full of eligible educated men.
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