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30-35,
anonymous
writes:How can I make my boyfriend behave the way he used to? Ever since we started having sex, that's all he wants, and he's not happy until he gets it. It's gotten to the point where the only way I can even talk to him or be happy around him is if he's had an orgasm first. It's terrible. I don't know what to do. Can someone help?
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Honestly? He sounds a bit immature about the whole thing, but given your age is it possible he's not had much (or perhaps any) sex before? It might just be new and exciting to him and the novelty hasn't worn off. Talk to him, let him know how you feel about this, and see if he can calm himself down. If he can't, then you have to decide what's more important to you: being with this guy, or being comfortable with the amount of sex you have. Sometimes libidos simply mismatch.
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reader, advisorX  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 The best solution to your problem is to talk to him. Youre a girl and you deserve respect. Relationship doesnt only focus on sex, You should not tolerate his bad manners about sex. sex is good but it should be done in a passionate way.
ask him if he really loves you and if he does, dont hesitate to ask why he's doing it the wrong way coz youre not happy about it.
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