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writes:hey everyone. i got boy trouble :( okay so i've got this friend. we've been talking since october and were really gud friends. When he flirts i do flirt back but he always starts. i think he likes me i might be reading signs wrong but i strongly doubt it. should i ask him if he does or not it would be weird if i asked him and he didn't like in that way cause then it would be weird between us.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (4 December 2010):
Hi there. If he flirts with you sometimes, that's usually a sure sign he at least likes you a bit.
It's the way some guys act if they like a girl.
Don't ask him if he likes you or not. Your intuition should tell you that he does.
Just talk to him - beyond flirting - and try to get to know him a bit more. Ask him about what he likes and dislikes, music, movies, anything at all. Just relax and talk to him like you would to any of your girlfriends. He is at least a friend after all.
Don't try to be funny to get his attention, just be yourself and don't pretend.
When you see him in the hallways, on your way to another class, say - "Hi! How's your day been?" and smile - This is always a good opening line, and go from there.
Over time, you will both find more things to talk about naturally as you relax and get to know each other more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): He flirts with you? You guys have been pals and talking since October? He definitely likes you!! You are not misreading the signs at all, If he starts flirting with you then he of course likes you and would be overjoyed if you liked him back. Maybe try to do it a little more special than "do you like me," flirt more with him or make it obvious you like him and he may ask you out, but if he doesn't hes just being shy so you should go ahead and ask him!
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reader, aavv  +, writes (4 December 2010):
Hey. If i can give advice usually for these situations i would say "whats the worst that can happen" but i see that you guys are good friends and may not exactly work. Personally i would wait a bit more and see if he continues flirting with you. If so,tell him that you have feelings for him more then just your current friendship and if he like you back he should tell you the same thing.:)
Good luck!
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