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writes:Hello all! this is my first time writing asking any questions! but i was wondering if u guyz might be able to help :)I'm a virgin and i've notice that my vagina is pretty small...i honestly can only get one finger in... is this normal? and when i finally do have sex...am i gonna be too small for the guy to fit? or will it hurt alot my first time? Thanks for the help!
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reader, itachi uhiha  +, writes (5 December 2010):
my friend told me that for her she also has a small vagina but when having sex it expands a bit.
also its meant to and i quote from this friend hurt at the start a bit then its so pleasurable that u cant help but moan. dont worry
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 December 2010):
 When you DO have sex for the first time - TAKE your time, LOTS of foreplay to get everything going. Also I would make sure the guy you are having sex with knows, so he can take it slow.
Ever owned a pair of kid gloves? Tight fit, right? They tend to mold themselves after your hand, same with the vagina (well sort of) except you have muscles that keeps it in shape.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): Is it the same when you're really turned on? If you don't know then perhaps you should experiment more and see.
Yeah it is normal, and no it won't necessarily hurt the first time. Although most of the time it does anyway. I wouldn't worry about it. Now I know Aunty bim bim said you can fit a baby out of there and while this is true, she neglected to mention that giving birth is one the most painful things anyone can ever experience and about half the women that give birth need to get stitched up afterwards because they get split open. Her point is valid though most of the time the vagina can expand a great deal but there are cases that this just doesn't happen. Experiment more, if even at your most turned on you can't get it to expand then are ways to slowly make it wider.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Imagine the size of a baby, its head, its shoulders etc. Then imagine how much your body will need to stretch to give birth to a baby, even a tiny one.
You will not be too small, and providing your partner takes his time and your body is ready it is unlikely that having sex will hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): it may hurt a lot, however you may be really turned on and it will open a bit bigger hopefully for you. Don't worry about it though
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