A
male
age
41-50,
*ark28
writes:I have been dating this girl in Dubai for the last 4 years....I had a great job..and she was madly in love with me..I lost my job and had to leave Dubai..Once i got back to my home country we kept in touch..she kept calling and sending emails and now it has stopped..She kept saying that we will make the long distance relation work till i get a job and i am settled..BUt now she no longer replies to my emails and i know she has changed.My question is this to your girls: If you really loved a guy soooo much and then the guy had to move on would your love reduce or would you consider dating someone after 3 months..I really want to make this work but feel she does not care anymore..im so hurt beacuse i was never the relationship or the love hit romeo but for the first time in 29 years i am really in love and i feel that she no longer loves me. She sent me a email recently saying lets be friends..its just so hurtful..why did she have to make me fall in love with her ?
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1  +, writes (3 December 2010):
You two fell in love and you moved. Sometimes the distance kills relationship. She could not handle it. If I really loved someone I would definitely handle it but everyone is different. That is not to say she did not love you before she probably did. For some it is out of sight out of mind. Just respect her decision. Do not contact her at all. Time to just give her space.
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