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*ergus
writes:i met this girl ages ago but its only up until recently that i have started to like her. shes pretty and funny and really, really nice. i really like her but theres a problem, shes a year younger than me (im 13 shes 12).i really like her but shes also got a boyriend. im not sure she likes him that much though as me and her have been flirting and talking alot recently.i dont know whether i should continue trying to get her to like me and then when she dumps her bf then i could ask her out. also im not sure whether my friends would take the mick for me seeing a younger girl??? i really need help quick because she might go off me and i cuoldnt stand that!
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reader, fergus +, writes (3 December 2010):
fergus is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks to al three of you youve been a real help! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): Great! You guys are already friends so there's none of that awkward weirdness or anything. I'm guessing that she's trying to send you a message by talking a lot with you, and I bet she likes you and not her boyfriend. So you should go ahead and ask her out, and she'll probably say yes! Also, for the age gap, this isn't a big deal I don't think. Girls tend to like older guys because they are more mature or hot, and you're friends will probably be happy for you rather than think you're weird to go out with a younger girl. They might even be jealous, because she sounds really nice and sweet!
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reader, legolas  +, writes (3 December 2010):
Dude as in you know her from AGES, i'll suppose you both are good friends..
if youre not then building a healthy frienship first would be great..
and if she dumps her bf then you could obviously ask her out..
as for the age diff. there is no fixed criteria for age when you fall in love..
don't care what the others say. you think you like her, go ahead and say it to her.. but don't hurry as i said.. build your trust first then think of doin somthing
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reader, x0xpaigex0x  +, writes (3 December 2010):
Hello hon3(: okay if you really want her to like you then you do have to tell her. Don't try to MAKE her like you though because that might start a fight. im 13 too and im a girl so i know how this stuff works. mention to her that u care a lot about her and you would never pressure her to do anything. you have to mention how BEUTIFUL you think she is instead of saying hot or sexy. when you call a girl hot or sexy.. it really makes them think your after one thing only. So tell her how you feel. but you also have to mention that you think she should know, and that she doesnt have to dump her boyfriend... because all u want is for her to b happy(: and y does it really matter what your friends think. you like her don't you? if there your real friends... they would understand!(:
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