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writes:Hey, I'd love some advice from readers, especially males, about how to keep my new relationship going from strength to strength with the ultimate aim of marrying this guy-I'd like to know what to do and what to avoid to achieve this. We've been together 6 months, and things are going great. He's gorgeous, kind, thoughtful, caring, clever, reliable and we are able to talk to each other about anything...he took me by surprise when I met him as I wasn't looking for a relationship at all. I've been in a longterm relationship before (7 years), split up a year before I started seeing my new bf because my ex cheated on me several times. I feel I can trust my new bf, and he's been cheated on himself in previous relationships. So my new bf tells me he's really happy with me, has never met a girl who likes him for being himself before, appreciates him and cares for him, and that he hopes we go from strength to strength. I really want this too, and would love some tips on how to achieve this. I want to keep him interested and surprised by me and us, have lots of new experiences with him...but what are the things that could make a relationship falter? Or last? In my heart of hearts, I feel I'd love to settle down with him, have children, get married...how can I achieve this? What would make this dream shatter? Thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): If it aint broke then don't fix it. Just go with the flow, everything is going fine and will get better and better don't worry about the future. Take care of the now and the future will take care of itself. Just enjoy your relationship and try not to think so much about what might or might not happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): I think that something would make the dream shatter is the negative fear thinking you are showing in your post. You both have been cheated on in the past. If there is anything that could shatter your dream it would be doubt and mistrust. Think positive, not negative! There is no room for love where is jealousy and distrust.
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