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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): Dude, you are not buying some toys or somehting that you can overlook other major factors like umm I don't know, who you love!!!
And it is so obvious you don't love either or you won't be asking this.
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reader, AgonyAuntiee93  +, writes (4 December 2010):
You shouldnt marry either. you obviously dont give a crap about what love is about. if you marry the "very ugly" one, then when se finds out you think she is ugly, she'll be destroyed...
If you marry the "pretty" one then when she finds you are marrying her for the looks, she will also be destroyed...
Yyou dont have feelings and you dont care about anyone but yourself. you are selfish..
go and find someone that you actually love, settle down and make a family!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): Marry either as you dont give a damn love dont exist for you and many other men who marry for all reasons except love,empty hearted and worthless
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): You don't love either, and you talk about them as though you're choosing a commodity, not a person. No offence meant, but you shouldn't be marrying anyone where the question is around the superficial look or what they do professionally.
Only time you should ever marry someone, as it's a long haul journey, is IF you love them so much you can't imagine life without them..and that life without them just would seem incomplete!
Let them find a guy who really loves them, and I'm sure in time you will meet someone and know what I mean.
Jilly
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reader, natasia +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Depends if you want to be average or unusual.
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reader, Specialkee27  +, writes (3 December 2010):
Marry the one you LOVE!
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reader, DewDrop123  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Traditional marriage?? India just like any other Arab country!!
i hate the idea....u dont love any of those woman...decline both....LOVE someone and this person will surely make you happy and u will make her happy!!! listen...Traditional marriages always make the couple sad and just like....dead...
good luck!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 How bad is very ugly? How do you think both of them will look after giving birth to children and have aged 20 years? There are songs though that say you are better off marrying someone ugly, because pretty women only give you heartache.. but how true that is I don't know.
Picture yourself 10-15 years from now, who would you see you have a more comfortable and better life with?
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reader, Mig29  +, writes (3 December 2010):
if you can not decide who to marry then you are not mature to marry, wait a few years more
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reader, MsVick +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Which one do you love? sounds like neither, how about skipping the whole marriage thing until you meet someone that you actually have feelings for..
Good luck
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Are these candidates for an arranged marriage?
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Both these women proposed to you? As in dropped down on one knee, engagement ring and all? Seems kind of ass backwards but whatever works. If you have no future plans, and you failed to mention anything about loving these women then I suggest you decline BOTH of their offers. You don't sound like you're ready for marriage.
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reader, Enzian  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 which one do you want to make happy for the rest of her and your life? That is the one you should get married to, but for me it sounds as none of this two would be the right one!
Hope this helps!
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