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writes:Okay, so my girlfriend got back in touch with one of her male friends that she knew when she was like 15. They started catching up and everything and the guy has a gf and a kid and he is like 22 (my gf is 21). Anyway he plays basketball and is really good and might get drafted (thats what my gf tells me) and he invited my girlfriend AND HER MOTHER to his last game of the season. My gf says she rather not go because it seems weird since she would be going to see him play and we go out BUT her MOTHER wants to go see him play? Her mom knew him when he was younger and hasn't talked to him at all but wants to see his last game. My gf told me that her mom still wants to go so she would probably ask her to go with her. My question is..is her mother trying to indirectly do something? What do you guys/gals think of the situation? Need some good advice. How would you people take it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): mm maybe that is the case you know..maybe she is just saying that her mum wants to go so she could go, in fact i am almost sure about it! cause this is what we girls do, she knows it would be weird and prob upset you if she went by herself, cause it's a guy friend anyway. and when you think about it, since when mums are so enthusiastic about seeing a game of some kind of kid her daugther used to be friends with. There are two options, either something dodgy like she likes him or she just simply wants to go and see that game cause they're good friends and tries to make it least painful for you cause she cares about you and wants to be with you but is afraid that you won't understand.
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reader, Mig29  +, writes (3 December 2010):
I think that you GF is trying to tell you that she has to go because her mother in going, infact i feel that since she wishes to go she is telling you that her mother wishes to go? Comprande?
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