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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I am really confused in understanding this situation I am in. Let me explain it. Me and my boy friend are commited for 3 yrs now. his bro, sis in law knows about this and i have been introduced to his mom once. 2 yrs before i happen to interact with one of his school mates and i took her to his place on his bday. from there on she started moving close to him and we are in long distance relationship and that girl and my bf stays in the same city so they started hanging out often, they informed me but after sometime i felt that she is craving for attention and when we 3 meet, he made sure that she feels good, so its like she gets all special treatments and he told me he is doing this so that she ll feel that me and my bf make a sweet pair, after somedays i was not able to take it and asked him to stop talking and he reduced a bit but didnt stop, now recently he moved abroad for his studies and before leaving he took her for a party were she happened to meet his bro and sis in law, so now she is friends with them too, the other day her mom called me with her name and then he said its by mistake so she appologized and started speakin sweet to me again!! and yes i completly stopped talkin with that b**** and she is single and got ditched by my bf's friend, thats how she got sympathy first from my bf. I am gettin crazy that she's getting into his family to the same level I am in, my bf moves socially with other girls and even though it hurts me sometime, I always trust him, but this thing I feel he is taking me for granted, when I try talking to her about this, he says "nothing is going on I don give in to her, so u are worrying yourself so dont pull me into this topic" I find this rude and insensitive. is he taking me for granted or I am so insecure.. honest replies plz
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): I understand where your coming from. My boyfriend used to see his ex girlfriend often and he texted her all the time and often he saw her/talked to her more then he saw me. I was hurt and i wasnt sure if i could trust them. Also, she was good friends with his younger sister and she got on well with his parents. I suggest talking to your boyfriend and explaining to him how it makes you feel. I got my boyfriend to imaging himself in my position and see how he would feel and that worked. If he knows just how hurt you are by this and still doesnt stop, maybe he isnt a keeper? If a guy doesnt care enough for a girl to give certain things up to keep her happy, then he isnt worth it x i hope this helps x
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