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30-35,
*humillicious
writes:My bf and I have been together for 9 months. I thought I'd be happy with him but guess what? I'm not! I want him to stop dealing with drugs but no one on earth could stop him. The more i try to stop him the more agressive he gets. I love him so much that i dont see myself ending our relationship over this matter. I'm 18yrs old and my bf's 20 - I hate having to deal with this. We pretty much argue every day now.. I'm not sure but i've got this horrible feeling hes going to dump me if i continue going on about the drugs. Please help! X
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reader, advisorX  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 You said youre not happy...
Happiness can never be bought by any amount of money.
Love is good or even great if you are happy with it, but what if not?
Go find someone who will make you happy. Sooner or later he will leave you anyway, because what important to him is his illegal business and not you..
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reader, MsVick  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Drugs can only bring you heartache and is probably aggressive because he knows he cant get out of selling drugs that easily. It could be dangerous for him to try and quit dealing or perhaps he just likes the fast easy money so he doesn't have to get a real job.
Think about it and ask yourself do you really want to be involved with someone like this? You don't see yourself ending this relationship over this "matter"? what he is doing is ILLEGAL and dangerous, he could go to prison or end up dead, perhaps taking you with him. THINK
Good luck
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 You are unhappy, that much is clear, and you dont like the fact your boyfriend deals drugs ... instead of sitting there worrying that he is going to dump you for your opinions why not get in first and dump him .... its a sure fire way to stop the arguments, your happiness levels will rise, and, the biggest bonus of all, you will no longer be tying yourself to a loser drug dealer.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (3 December 2010):
You are unhappy, that much is clear, and you dont like the fact your boyfriend deals drugs ... instead of sitting there worrying that he is going to dump you for your opinions why not get in first and dump him .... its a sure fire way to stop the arguments, your happiness levels will rise, and, the biggest bonus of all, you will no longer be tying yourself to a loser drug dealer.
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