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writes:I've recently found out my boyfriend's being forced to move to America because his dad's got a new job. I live in England and our relationship is already long distanced, he lives in Newcastle and I live in East Yorkshire. I don't want him to go, but I know he has to. I love him too much to see him go. What do I do :( ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): You can't do anything. He's moving away. You will continue your LDR over facebook, texts etc but over time you will contact each other less and less as you have less and less in common, and both inevitably move on with your life. The good news is that there will be plenty of other guys in your life.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Unless either of you have enough money or can pool it together to get a flat then there's nothing you can do. Now you must choose to either continue this relationship or break it off because now it's thousands of miles and an ocean is standing in your way. I know international LDRs are extremely hard because there's just too much distant. How often will they be coming back to visit? Perhaps you had better start saving up for airfare to America and looking into getting a tourist visa.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): I know exactly how you feel, I love my boyfriend a lot too and i couldnt dream of letting him go. Sometimes, life throws unexpected speed bumps at us and even though we really dont want to deal with them, its something we just have to do. If you and your boyfriend really love eachother and you've already had to deal with a long distance relationship you should be able to make it through anything together. You have to believe in your relationship, keep contact as much as possible and see each other as much as you possibly can. Maybe it would even be a good excuse for a nice long holiday ;) Stay strong, you will both pull through, after all, they always say absence makes the heart grow stronger xx
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