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writes:There is this girl at the gym who wears a bathing suit that is way too revealing! It only covers half of her breasts and only a quarter of her ass. It is almost seethru, and she always has T.H.O.'s. She makes a point to walk slowly around the pool and bend over and make like she is stretching, and she only ends up going in the hot tub. She loves to show it off, but she is showing off too much! What do others think?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (3 December 2010):
 I love learning new things! Thanks Cerberus! THO goes on my list too.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Just ignore it.
And if she's not the prettiest thing, for god sakes don't humiliate her.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Now, if this chick has a decent bod, then just look away you don't have to stare at the attention getter. If you got it, flaunt it! Right? Well, if she's not so skinny, has a little too much cellulite, and her top barely covers her saggy boobs, just not a pleasure to look at then you might want to bring an extra cover-up, moo- moo, and offer it to her.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Im impressed with how much you know Cerberus! THO was new to me as well!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Okay thanks Buddy. I'll add it to the DC Manual. To the poster, are you a teensy weensy envious perhaps?
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reader, chigirl +, writes (3 December 2010):
I have no idea what THO is, but maybe you should just pull her aside and ask her if she knows how much she's showing off. Perhaps she doesn't realize it's almost see-through, and doesn't think anyone notices the swimming suit is too small. Perhaps she's broke and can't afford a new one. Approach it tactfully, and remember that she's free to wear whatever she wants. If she gets upset just be graceful about it. Don't argue or make her feel bad. Treat it like she was perhaps unaware and you are just giving her a helping hand. Smile, and then let her do whatever she wants to with it. If she chooses to keeping using the tiny swimming suit don't pay attention to it, and if it annoys you just look away. Just be nice to her... It's what would be best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): Titty Hard On. Basically erect nipples.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 December 2010):
What does T.H.O. mean, some one enlighten me please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): Honeypie and Dirtball are right. Don't like it, don't look, there are plenty of other people that will like it.
As a person that went from fat to well built and athletic, I know what it's like to want to show the world my work. Because to me that's what my body is, something I created that I'm proud of. I spent years of aches, pains, blood and sweat to create this body and like a man with with a new Ferrari or a woman with a new pair of Louboutin's I want people to notice it, which they do and it feels great. Because when you go from hiding your body to having a body people can admire then it's well worth it and I'll take the criticism with the compliments in equal measure.
Maybe she's the same, maybe she likes the feeling of having people look at her and why shouldn't she? Even if she doesn't have what you might consider a nice body then she is by all means entitled to show it. We all have things about ourselves, good qualities that we like to show the world. Your good qualities might be manners, or generosity. Hers is her body.
Try not to judge her for it, it's not a bad thing for her to do that the only bad thing is the reaction of others towards her for expressing her body the way she feels she can.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (3 December 2010):
 I think I'd like to be at that swimming pool.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (3 December 2010):
Starved for attention, maybe an exhibitionism fetish. Doesn't really matter. Like Honeygirl said, don't look if you don't like it. Unless it goes against policy of the swimming pool there is little you can do.
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reader, lintmagnet +, writes (3 December 2010):
You can not avoid people who want to reveal what they have-personally, it's a little gross to me, but...
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Sounds like bad taste for a public swimming pool, but not unusual for the beach.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Who cares? Honestly?
She is obviously STARVED for attention, stop looking if it annoys or offend you.
Or she is just really happy about her body. Either way, it's up to you, to look or not.
There is a very big lady at my gym, who likes to wear low cut work out shorts and some shiny/sparkly g-strings. I have to say I am torn between going :" YOU go girl! that is self confidence for you!" or "man... that bum crack not NOT very attractive." But I have a choice (like you) I can just look away.
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