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writes: hello, please i want every possible advice for me, i really need that,im in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend , it actually been a long time, the least i can say about her is that im crazy inlove with her, but i wanna forget her, take her out of my mind, she hurts me a lot , latelly we broke up for like a couple of weeks, and after that we got bk again , and she told me that while we werent together she kinda got with some1 and they kissed , but obviously she found out that she still loves me, crap like that, anyway i cant deal with this s**t anymore, i wanna forget her , i dont wanna love her anymore, i just cant stand this anymore, please tell me how i can do thatps : the thing is we never did anything together ,we know eashother for a while but then i had to leave for my studies and while iw as away we got together coz basically we had something for eashother even before i left but just didnt show that ,thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010): start going out there or online and flirt with other women, meet other women, this is the only way, time takes to long to heal! so you might aswell start now mate! breka up with her and move on, otherwise you will keepn getting hurt. goodluck!
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reader, babu3u +, writes (3 December 2010):
Well if you want to forget her your going to have to stop communicating with her, get rid of the thing she gave you, or just put them away. Try to focus on something else. Keep your mind busy. When your are noticing that you are thinking about her do something else to get your mind of her. I completely understand how you are feeling. Is hard forgetting about someone you are madly in love with. But if the relationship is not good at all you can't keep hurting yourself. I really hope everything turns out alright for you.
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reader, SmilySmily +, writes (3 December 2010):
Time heals everything...I know its crappy saying but there's nothing really can be done to forget someone or get over someone. But if you want to get rid of her in your head asap, why not tryin to go on a date or meet someone else? It will definately keep your mind away from her????
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