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writes: Do you believe that people should be given a second chance in a relationship? we all do mistake if our partner did something wrong, broke your trust or some other thing and you still love them do you think its rite to give them second chance? i am not in such situation but i have seen many people giving second chance and they getting hurt again..... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, ann84 +, writes (3 December 2010):
Ok let me tell you my ex bf called me whore even though i didnt sleep with anyone and asked me forgive and told me he lost his control and promise me and i gave him one chance
Then he did the same thing and called me different words which made me sad again he did this when he lost his control
Then he wanted me to give him another chance but i was gonna go back to him and guess what i saw? While he was telling me he loves me, at the same time he was asking all girls to hang out with him or night club even though some of them has bf
Does he deserve a chance? Or how do i overcome after he all hurt me and wasted my one yeat with him?
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (3 December 2010):
Yes, I'd give a second chance. But not a third.
Once is a mistake. Twice or more is a pattern.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): I do believe that it's ok to give them a second chance. I was one of the one's who did give someone a second chance and got hurt again, but I also know my niece gave her ex a second chance, and they have just gotten married have 2 beautiful boys and are now happier than ever. It could go either way, but I do believe that love is worth the risk, as long as you are both honest with each other, and work together.
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