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She's out of league, is it wrong to ask her out?

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Question - (3 December 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well, there is this girl I like and we are pretty good friends. Even though we dont go to the same school, she and I sometimes talk text, or facebook chat with each other. But the problem is she said she likes tall guys but Im only 5'9" and she gets like perfect grades and good at sports too. I on the other hand is pretty much a "average joe" in every category. Is she way out of my league? Is it wrong for me to ask her out?

PS: she doesnt know if I like her or not

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010):

Nobody is out of your league if you are a good person who treats people right.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2010):

People have always said that I'm a beautiful woman and ask why I married the man I did as he's not very physically attractive or successful. The reason--what's inside matters more to me, the heart and soul. I think you should ask this girl out. You never know where the relationship might go.

Good luck!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2010):

I'm a 'average joe' really. I'm a plumber, and at the moment I'm unemployed. I'm broke. Yet my girlfriend is the finest woman I know, and all because I took the chance in talking to her and letting her get to know me over time.

There is no league - only those who take a chance and those who don't.

Take a chance and tell her how you feel. You have nothing to lose, but a lot more to gain.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010):

5'9" isn't short and there is no such thing as "leagues".

If you like her, ask her out, don't be a lame- oh!! Why wouldn't she want to be with you? Relationship- worthiness and even attractiveness have nothing to do with grades or abilities or height or yadayadaya. It depends on the individual person and their tastes and the chemistry two share and few are shallow enough to judge based solely on the little factors you are worrying about...

Confidence!

Tante Victoire

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