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*antheloving
writes:I am a 47 year old scottish guy, i work and i also have a very small business, i met a 23 year old girl through this business about two years ago, we had great fun to start with but i,m very cautious of moving things on, she is the life and soul of a place yet she doesnt like when i socialise with other people and if while she,s gone up to the bar or out for a cigarette and i am socialising if there happens to be a woman in the company this girl becomes all defensive and looks at me like i had totally spoiled her night, on top of this we were having a weekend away with friends recently and she dissappeared for a half hour while we were all up dancing, and she denies it. anyone from the female gender got any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, iantheloving +, writes (3 December 2010):
iantheloving is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks all for your replies, working on things now as she admits to feelings of insecurity since childhood, i would never have thought that about her as she is so full of life, we will wait and see how things go anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): She sounds very controlling. She is very out going herself but is uncomfortable when you are. It is a sign of insecurity on her part. If she were secure within herself she would accept you enjoying the company of other people, man or woman. People who are controlling are bad news. We all have the right to be ourselves and express our personalities.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): sorry but she sounds like an attention seeking person,and a bit of a drama queen,and yes, mind games as well, she wants all then stage and attention and wont let you have any.. disappearing half the an hour? where was she?
denying it? hmm..
she also sounds like she may be jealous, which is a sign of insecurity, just because you chat or say hi to girls doesnt mean you will flirt with them or cheat on her, and it wont spoil her night. Sorry, but though she may be fun, it may be time to reassess if you really, honestly have anything in common anymore with this girl, sounds like way too much drama and mind games.. sounds like she wants you at her beck and call, thats not a r/ship thats a controlling, insecure person.
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