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*jones
writes:I'm a 26 year old female with a 2 month old babe, my boyfriend is 22 and all he wants to do is rap, and worry about what he needs done or paid off, but anything i have to do is not important to him, his actions give it away, he doesnt do anything around my house, like take out the trash, unless i ask him. he's not working at all, when i get paid he has his hand out or dont care if all my bills get shut off, im not happy but I do have a child by him. So confused. Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Have you thought that keeping around this C-list gigolo is actually preventing you from doing right by your child ??
All the hard earned cash that you are wasting on this moocher, is money that you could ( and should ) spend on your child instead. I don't mean just to buy him more toys and goodies ( even if there would be nothing wrong with that, if you have to spoil somebody, better a young child than a 22 y.o. one ! ) but to put some aside for his future , like getting an education or setting up a business etc.
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reader, honest_human  +, writes (19 December 2010):
Waste of space indeed. He does not sound like a good role model for your child. Your child comes 1st. You do not want him to turn out like that do you?
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