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Haven't seen him in years, am I doing the right thing?

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Question - (19 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay so I am completly in love with this guy Bobby. I met him when I was 16 he was and is everything I want in a man. He broke my heart when I was 16 he left me for someone who was suppose to be my friend. He isnt a good person he robs everyone he knows. I dont think he really cares about people. But no matter what anyone says or what he does I still love him more than anything in this world. I would drop everything in my life to have him back. I find myself still after almost 6 years still obsessing about him. Like looking him up on the internet and on case net. I am going to his court date soon I havent seen him in almost 5 years.I dont even know if he wants to see me but if I dont go to him I am going to drive myself crazy. Am I doing the right thing??

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A male reader, soon567 United States +, writes (20 December 2010):

Absolutely not, what are you thinking. This guy isn’t anything but trouble, what do you see in this man? Should I say convict soon. Is your life so bad that you only think you deserve a man who will spend years in prison before he sees the light…if ever. Ask yourself honestly what you see in a thief. Most thieves start stealing at home then progress elsewhere. Basically you saying you drop your whole life to be with a man who would steal from his own family.

WorldNet:

•a criminal who takes property belonging to someone else with the intention of keeping it or selling it

That’s your guy. Now he’s stealing from people like me, using the justice system and probably going to receive room and board. As a taxpayer, people like your guy, rip us off every day. This is the guy you want to stand behind. What a joke. I can love someone, but when they hurt others then that’s where I draw the line. And yes, stealing hurts all that involved directly or indirectly. You need to let this guy go.

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