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writes:I see a lot of rather sensational-sounding videos, books, etc. that purport to be able to teach guys how to be sex gods, give women mind blowing squirting orgasms, etc. Are any of these books, videos, etc. any good? If so, which ones?For the women, are good lovers born or made? In other words, how much of being a good lover is natural ability, looks, charm, etc., and how much of it is technique? Is it worth it for an average guy to try to learn about sexual techniques, etc., or should we just continue spending quality time with the Nintendo and porn?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010): I agree with the female poster below.
You do get better as you go along, particularly with the right person who you understand, who understands you, who cares for you, and who develops that relationship over time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): As a woman, this is my opinion. I've had great sex, and so so sex. The number one thing that creates great sex is great chemistry. If it's not there, the sex is just meh-- sure I got off, but I don't lay there afterwards thinking "DAMN that was good." My current long term boyfriend is the best I've ever had. I've had more technically adept lovers, guys that seriously tried to blow my mind, and I would still take my boyfriend over any of them. There is an intimacy between us that can't be created from a book or video.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): you get better as you go along
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