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writes:I'm in love with a girl for 2.5 years, but she is attached with her bf for about 5 years now. Initially, she didn't like me but after a year, she started having feelings for me because her bf is emotionally abusive and very possessive too and she broke up but patched back many times with him. She tells me she is confused about me and her feelings are on and off which is hurting for me. She knows I care for her very much and I made her hand made gifts just to make her smile. She always shares her problems with me. Once, she text messaged that we shouldn't talk to each other forever from now on and she never replied to my texts. Her possessive bf is more important to her now. It has been almost 4 months since I last talked to her. Will she still have thoughts about me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): like dersita said you must wait. if her boyfriend is possessive and abusive then she is probably scared what will happen if he caught her talking to you. but in time she will get stronger and if you wait for her, she will see just how much you love her. Wait and she will come to you.
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reader, sunandstars  +, writes (19 December 2010):
I think you can just live in hope. She is obviously trapped in her abusive relationship and you cannot do anything until the door is released. You are evidently a much better boyfriend but you are just going to have to wait. Hope this helps.
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reader, dersita  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Ooooh thats hard. Well there's only ONE THING to do. You must WAIT.
Wait for her to text you again. DO NOT text her back or you'll only make matters worse. WAIT for her to think it over and let HER TEXT YOU BACK.
If you see her around someplace, simply SMILE at her. DO NOT go over to her and try to start a conversation.
4 months is a LONG TIME!DAMN, ITS A VERY LONG TIME! BUT WAIT!
Let her text YOU.
GOOD LUCK!!
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