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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I had a surgery on my bladder that went terribly wrong just over a year ago. For months, I had to wear a diaper 24/7. That made me feel so undesireable and unsexy. I recently (about 3 months ago) had surgery to repair the first one. My doctor has released me to have sex. The problem is that I still see myself as so unsexy from all the diaper wearing, that I have lost all interest in sex. Before the first surgery, I couldn't seem to get enough of my husband. How do you suggest that I overcome this image of myself that is taking such a huge toll on my emotions and my marriage? Reply to this Question
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reader, HopelessRomantic66 +, writes (20 December 2010):
Perhaps if you treat yourself to a sexy new outfit or sexy undies it would help build your confidence. It doesn't have to be slutty, it just needs to help you feel good about yourself. I'm looking at this from the old saying "I think; therefore, I am."
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