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Should I stay with him and put up with drama?

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Question - (19 December 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I just got in a relationship with a guy I used to be head over heels for 6 years ago. We lost touch and have both gone through some pretty hard times but a few months ago we made our way back to each other. Things started off pretty rocky... He's a great guy I can swear by that. But it took him a while to tell me that he had a roomate and that his roomate is his ex. She calls him everytime he's with me and her and her friends like to make there presence known by calling and texting him about her or messaging him and posting things on his Facebook and its a pretty small town so everyone basically knows each other- The drama is inevitable. She's 7 yrs older than him and I'm 4 years younger than him but she acts so immature sometimes. He wants to get serious with me and I was fine with it because he promised he was going to move out by the middle of December[This month]. But apparently things have changed and he's going to be living with her until November of next year... She still has feelings for him and she makes that extremely clear he says he doesn't and I don't have a reason to think he's lying but sometimes I wind up feeling like I'M the other women. Should I stay with him and put up with the drama and hope nothing happens between them?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2010):

Sorry to hear you are in this situation. i would say to not invest too much of yourself in this relationship, because this Ex/Roommate is definitely calling for drama !

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010):

He's obviously choosing to stay with her not move forward with you. I would live your life and keep things mild over the next year, while you continue to pursue other relationships...if he leaves her and your available go for it, but as for now. you are NOT his first choice...move on!! Things are happening between them, he is with her, NOT you!

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