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writes:Okay I'll try and make this short. I like this guy, we're friends, but ever since his gf he got this school year, he barely talks, smiles, says hi, or texts me back anymore. I mean, lately he'll smile but quickly look away, and that. Well, I really like him a lot, and everytime I see him I get butterflies in my tummy and for some reason I feel automaticazly happy somehow, its weird. Well, everytime I tell myself I need to get over him, I start having this achey feelin in my tummy and chest, and I try my hardest to get over him. But yet again when I see him, something happens and I just can't stop liking him. I want to get over him, but honostly I don't know how and know if its the right thing to do. Its even affectin my life, sort of, cause I stress over the smallest things about him, like if he doesn't look at me, or smile or text me back. I stress and think he hates me. I'm even afraid to date people, cause I'm so afraid that if I get a bf, he'll ask me out. I did have a bf, but we broke up, even when I was dating my bf, and knew the guy I like has a gf, I still was afraid of him asking me out. I don't know why I'm like this. I'm ready to get over him and just completely be his friend, but then again I'm not. Please help me. How can I get over him? I hope my information helped some. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): I feel your pain! It's soooo not easy is it?! I would talk to him, get to know him and become friends. The best relationships stem from friendships. There is a good chance he won't stay with who he's with, get to know him, and maybe you'll luck out! Don't give up hope! But also, don't be afraid to move on, just follow your heart!
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reader, candy253 +, writes (19 December 2010):
aw sweetie :), well first off i want to let you know you are not alone in this and i can promise you every adult went through this. its a part of growning up, maturing, and learning from your mistake. this might sounds crazy be glad your feeling this your a normal human bein! time is all that can help you get over someone. try occupying yourself with activities. sports, hangingout with friends, drugs and alcohol never help! so dont make that a habit lol, mall, snow boarding, skiing, talk to other boys, write down your feelings, do what you like to do and do what you really feel is best and dont regret it!
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