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*linaCoop
writes:Hi every one.First thing, I am sorry for my english. I am learning, but I will try to explain what's going on.I am married for 3 years, my husband left me because he said that he doesn't have future with me. He wants to move out of the country to another country, he doesn't have work over there, he just is tired here in US...I told him we can do that, but if we have enough money to do a bussines over there and buy a place where to live...I know I agreed with him before..but I realized that is not gonna work...He was very angry and he left already to that country...and I am here by myself, thanks God I have a work here..we talk every day...he call me, he send me emails..he doesn't sound romantic but he wants to make sure I am ok. I feel so bad because some times I feel so guilty, because I said first yes..now he left without me..He sent me a email and he said he loves me so much but he is looking for his future and if I don't want go with him, he will do his own things.He said sorry for the actual situation but he doesn't want continue with our relationship. (he will be out for the next 3 months, he left en december and is coming next march).
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): Well he's coming back, you didn't say why he thinks he doesn't have a future with you.Did he come to you in the hope of a better life, and got dissapointed. He's leaving the doors open in case he finds something better. He did not love you, to take off as he did. If he loved you he would be trying to build his future with you, no matter what. The emails and unromantic calls everyday, keeps a safety net for him too.Oh, if he doesn't find his better life there,he keeps the doors open to come back to you.be careful
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): Well he's coming back,you didn't say why he thinks he doesn't have afuture with you.did he come to us in the hope of a better life,and got dissapointed.he's leaving the doors open incase he finds something better.he did did not love you to take off as he did.if he loved you he would be trying to build his future with you no matter what.the emils and unromantic calls everyday are,keeps a safty net for him to,if he doesn't find his better life there,he keeps the doors open to come back to you.be carefull.
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reader, AlinaCoop +, writes (20 December 2010):
AlinaCoop is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks Youwish for the advice...yeah,,you are right..if we don't have anything else together..why we have to talk everyday???
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reader, YouWish +, writes (20 December 2010):
 All you can do here is not continue the relationship. Don't talk to him every day, file for divorce and let him go. He doesn't have faith in you to help build your future together, and you need to find someone like that.
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