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writes: I have been in a relationship for two years and a half and recently every time my bf goes on trips for a couple of days he forgets to call. We live together. I am worried he doesn`t miss me or love me for that matter.What is it??? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 I echo Mystiquek on this one. Guys just don't "forget" to call. He's not calling because he doesn't want to call.
Now, where is he going on these trips? Unless he's in the middle of the Amazon Rainforest seeing as he wouldn't get cell phone service there, then he has NO excuse not to call you. It seems as he's too busy, or doesn't care enough to call you while he's away on these trips. I would be worried and questioning where he goes and what he does on these trips.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): He probably does it on purpose as he knows then you will be thinking about him like you do. Then he knows your mind will be on him. Its all about the attention.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (19 December 2010):
 You may get varied answers on this, but my feelings are "How can he forget to call? He's gone for days and can't remember even once to call? For 5 minutes?" I'm sorry..I wouldn't be buying that line. My guy goes back to his home in Japan for 2 weeks twice a year, and trust me, he's extremely busy, he's a doctor, and he ALWAYS calls me EVERY SINGLE DAY...Maybe its only for 5 minutes, but he always lets me know he's ok, and what he's doing, and he usually sends me emails or we talk on skype.
In my opinion, you definitely have a problem. Your boyfriend is very thoughtless. I'm sorry to be so hurtful, but I just can't believe he can't take 5 minutes to call. I'd be very hurt and worried if I were you. Its just common courtesy for him to at least let you know he's ok. I wouldn't buy his excuse AT ALL.
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (19 December 2010):
 For me as a man: forget to call= i don't really care, you are not really on my mind...sorry
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reader, CJH  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Ask him? Maybe he feels comfortable enough and secure enough in the relationship not to call. Regardless of that though, if it upsets you, you need to tell him.
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reader, Tbosse  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Does he call frequently when hes not away? My ex was never used to calling me unless ther was an emergency.for him was to pay the phone bill. Try explain that you realy want to hear from him(especialy when hes away)..hope it helps. Goodluck
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