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Why does she reject me when her mind is clearly saying "yes"?

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Question - (19 December 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2010)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

theres this girl i love that i cant get out of my head. she says she just wants to be friends but her actions dont say so. on the bus to school she plays with my hair and flirts with me. thats not the only reason i love her. shes just so amasing her hair is blond like its made of sunlight, her smile is more breath taking than dew on a cherry blossum, and her eyes are freashly cut saphiers in a pool of spring water. i love her and i think she loves me to, but everytime i ask her out she says no. why does she say no when her mind is clearly saying yes? please help my heart was made for her to steal.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2010):

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i forgot to mention she's shy.

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A male reader, Illithid United States +, writes (20 December 2010):

Illithid agony auntSounds like she's just flirting playfully, but isn't actually interested in a relationship. You want her so badly that you're looking for signs that aren't there and reading more into things than actually exists. She's flirty, but not enamored. Many girls your age do that (and many women never grow out of it).

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010):

Sorry dude. It's your mind that wants her to want you and you are projectiong your expectations on to her.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (19 December 2010):

Some people just love attention. She's one of them. You're there acting like a puppy around her, and she likes it. But you're not listening, and that's what you need to do. She is telling you that she doesn't want to go out with you.

She is playing mind games with you. This is just about attention for her, nothing more. If I were you, I'd just back away.

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