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writes: Don't all guys like anal? My boyfriend of 2 years begged me to try but now won't even come close to that region...i feel embarrassed cause i thought all guys liked anal. help? :( Reply to this Question
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (20 December 2010):
 Heck no all guys don't like anal! Guys are all over the board on sexual preferences! Most men would like to at least try anal once, but that doesn't mean all men would LIKE it (after all, the "front door" was BUILT for sex. The back? not so much.) Maybe he didn't like it as much, or feels bad for trying something taboo. Or maybe he even just feels he overstepped boundaries by asking you for it in the first place since he had to beg you to try it and now you're embarrassed. He could be avoiding it out of shame for forcing you into it.
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reader, Liebes Kummer  +, writes (19 December 2010):
Different strokes for different folks. Not all men like anal.
Like some of the responses say, he tried it and probably found out it wasn't his cup of tea.
Try to speak with him though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): Men can not like sexual acts too! so what if he does not like anal sex, lots of women I am sure would love to be in your shoes.
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reader, smiliek  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Not all guys like it. In fact in my experience, most prefer normal sex. Its designed that way. If your bf actually tried it with you, then he simply didnt like it. Nothing to do with you. If you liked it and want to continue, you may need to find another bf. As if your current one doesnt enjoy it you cant force him. Or introduce toys into your sex life and use those instead of him when you want anal.. Its simply a preference
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 December 2010):
A secret about men is that they often say things to sound bigger and bolder, when they in fact are quite scared.
I think your boyfriend did this. I think he fantasized about it, and I think he thought he wanted it. Then when you offered it, he got scared and changed his mind.
It doesn't mean he fancies you any less. If he didn't fancy you, he'd have wandered off some time ago. But you'll probably find he got nervous. And not all guys like anal. I've never liked the idea of it, and plenty of other guys won't like the idea either.
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reader, DKW +, writes (19 December 2010):
Sounds like youre pretty open minded with regards to sex...I suggest you find a guy who is too...but dont be used!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): So, you actually had anal sex with him? Your post didn't mention that. Well, like i said, he tried it and it wasn't for him.
It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you he just didn't like it. You should try talking to him about it if it upsets you this much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut now i just feel like i have failed him, like i ruined it for him or i'm not pretty enough for him. its embarrassing...i liked it but he didn't...it makes me feel gross or like i'm weird
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): No, not all guys like it. Everyone's different, some girls like it some don't. You say he begged you and now he's backing off? Maybe he liked the idea of it but now he's been given the chance he's a bit nervous.
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