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female
age
51-59,
*ifany1920
writes: Been in a relationship with a guy for two years, we only managed to see each other at weekends. I thought our relationship was good and was ready to take it to the next level, when I discovered by chance he has a profile on facebook under a different surname but saying he is a WOMAN!I asked him in a jokey fashion if it was him and he just replied in same jokey fashion well you know i like to wear your dresses (he doesn't wear my dresses they would never fit him I am far smaller).Any advice as I am totally confused.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (19 December 2010):
How do you know it's him, is it completely anonymous? Is it his profile picture, or is he dressed in drag?
I've seen people make fake profiles for different reasons, but the main reason is that they're talking to someone that don't want to know who they really are. I would call him out on it, assuming you are for sure it's an account he created, and ask what is with his fake profile.
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reader, honest_human +, writes (19 December 2010):
It is a jokey account. Possibly to commit Jokes on other people.
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (19 December 2010):
You could go.. "no.. seriously.. why DO you have a female profile on Facebook?" then get him to tell you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): Most of us are very accepting of different lifestyle choices these days. And dressing in women's clothes etc is one of those choices. It doesn't make him less of a man. But it's just whether that is the case - and if it bothers you? You just need to clarify the situation and what your stance is.
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