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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010): to your responce that you feel embarrassed and gross.you didnt do any thing wrong!he agreed to do it-it takes two to tango.you are young-i wish i could change a lot of things in my life far worse-time,open commincation,by you and your boyfriend-things will heal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010): well-maybe he doesnt like anal-just ask politely and sencerly.if he doesnt like anal-you could just satisfy yourself,when he aint around.unless you want to find a other guy who likes it.do you want to leave your guy over this.
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reader, amicalus +, writes (22 December 2010):
Perhaps he does not like to talk to him he is the only solution
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reader, amicalus +, writes (22 December 2010):
oh!!!! well perhaps he doesn't like this ask him for the reasons.
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (19 December 2010):
If you've decided it was a mistake, all you can do is chalk it up to experience and move on. We all make 'em.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the input guys, but he was so excited to try it so i went out of my comfort zone to try it and i really enjoyed it. but now i am left feeling gross and embarrassed i don't know what to do
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reader, yvonica +, writes (19 December 2010):
I'm very sorry I know I should be giving advice but doesn't anal sex hurt? I never tried it.
And like c.grant said... I think you should ask him... y'all been with eachother for 2 years you two should feel compftable enough to ask questions and state your opinions...
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (19 December 2010):
Ya he could just have wanted to try it and now its over. Ask
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reader, C. Grant +, writes (19 December 2010):
It's not everyone's cup of tea. He may have decided it wasn't for him. Or he may have thought you were doing him a one-time favour and not realize that you like it and want it. Best way to find out is to ask.
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