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Why doesn't he want to do anal anymore? Is it me?

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Question - (19 December 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 24 December 2010)
A age 30-35, * writes:

Boyfriend and I have been dating two years, a while ago he asked me to try anal with him so i did. He liked the thought of it and it was something he always wanted to try. After we tried it he lost all desire to do it... which stinks cause i really enjoyed it. He avoids anal at all costs and i don't know what to do. Why doesn't he want to do it anymore? is it me? I've been with my first boyfriend for around 3 months now and feel like its a doomed relationship. help someone..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010):

to your responce that you feel embarrassed and gross.you didnt do any thing wrong!he agreed to do it-it takes two to tango.you are young-i wish i could change a lot of things in my life far worse-time,open commincation,by you and your boyfriend-things will heal.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2010):

well-maybe he doesnt like anal-just ask politely and sencerly.if he doesnt like anal-you could just satisfy yourself,when he aint around.unless you want to find a other guy who likes it.do you want to leave your guy over this.

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A male reader, amicalus Algeria +, writes (22 December 2010):

amicalus agony auntPerhaps he does not like to talk to him he is the only solution

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A male reader, amicalus Algeria +, writes (22 December 2010):

amicalus agony auntoh!!!! well perhaps he doesn't like this ask him for the reasons.

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (19 December 2010):

C. Grant agony auntIf you've decided it was a mistake, all you can do is chalk it up to experience and move on. We all make 'em.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010):

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Thanks for the input guys, but he was so excited to try it so i went out of my comfort zone to try it and i really enjoyed it. but now i am left feeling gross and embarrassed i don't know what to do

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A female reader, yvonica United States +, writes (19 December 2010):

yvonica agony auntI'm very sorry I know I should be giving advice but doesn't anal sex hurt? I never tried it.

And like c.grant said... I think you should ask him... y'all been with eachother for 2 years you two should feel compftable enough to ask questions and state your opinions...

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A female reader, Mjfbla United States +, writes (19 December 2010):

Mjfbla agony auntYa he could just have wanted to try it and now its over. Ask

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A male reader, C. Grant Canada +, writes (19 December 2010):

C. Grant agony auntIt's not everyone's cup of tea. He may have decided it wasn't for him. Or he may have thought you were doing him a one-time favour and not realize that you like it and want it. Best way to find out is to ask.

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