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writes:I wonder if I'm a sex addict because me and my gf have dated for about 10 months and recently have decided on somewhat of an open relationship. She doesn't do Anything but I do, I mostly have sex with friends and co-workers daily and idk y in the last yr I've become so sexually active and horny all the time. I do use protection when I'm with a boy. Idk what to do.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (19 December 2010):
 You either don't want to be in the relationship deep down, or she does not satisfy your needs physically.
Either way, what you need to do is have a talk with her and tell her how you feel.
Be open with her and be honest.
If you say, "we need to work on our sex life. I am with you and don't want to really sleep with other people.", she will probably be more open to sex.
I am sure she, like most partners, don't have a clue what you are feeling. She thinks things are fine and dandy. Unless you start off in a polyamorous relationship, if you become poly, it is mostly due to an imperfect sex life, whether it be from lack of sex at all or lack of variety, or both.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (19 December 2010):
 Sounds like you have a problem...i'd go find a shrink and get it fixed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2010): If your a sex addict then that means you can't function in daily life, that you ONLY think about sex.
I don't think that you can blame what your doing on an addiction. You just need self control. There is a big distinction between those with no self control and those with a sex addiction.
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