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anonymous
writes:I became involved with a man who is married. Of course he claimed unhappiness, etc. I tried to break it off several times, but nevertheless, we are still together. He always had excuses about timing and leaving but the wife found out and subsequently threw him out. Now, several months later, I'm receiving phone calls from the wife that I need to leave him alone, he doesn't love me, etc. that he needs to heal. He spends all of his free time with me. I questioned him about the phone calls and he denies that he has even spoken to her let alone the fact that he doesn't have the spine to end it with me (what she said). My question is, he hasn't made an attempt to file for divorce and, is she a woman scorned or should I believe her? Is he with me because she threw him out? Wouldn't he attempt to reconcile with her if her claims were true? I'm truly at a loss. Am I being played or should I believe him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2010): dear OP deep down you know the answers to all your questions. where there i smoke there is fire and your married man is trying to put out this fire but those flames are atill aburning.
you know you are playing with fire. you will get burnt. you may be stubborn and want to prove a point to his wife but hey why take on a cheater. he will replace you with someone else, only a matter of time. wait and see.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): He loves himself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): tell him you want to get married and ask him to file for divorce.. you'll get your answer..
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