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*aramelgirl
writes:I was involved with a Married man who had been seperated from his wife for 14 months when I had meet him. We were together for 8 months up until last night.He told me he loved me and I was the first woman he had fallen in love with on his own terms, He had hid our relationship from his wife, I found this out because earlier on in our relationship I started feeling like something was not sitting right with me so I snooped through his phone and took his wife's number, He told me she knew about us,He would come and stay the night for a few nights then he would go home to his parents and then come back to mine some times we would have some quiet drinks then the next thing I would know he had dissapeared gone... Home. This is why I took her number.. so one night when he did his dissapearing act I rang the wife to my amazement he was there with her he said he was there because he missed his daughter, any how I got played big time, he had been seeing her off and on through the 8 months we were together. He Kept his wife away from me and his kids and said to me that his wife was involved with another man... I got a phone call from his wife on sunday gone to say she had been seeing him again and that he was pulling the wool over both our eyes, she also claimed that she knew he told me about this other guy she was supposedly dating and she told me that it was lies and that he said that to me to keep of his case to buy more time!! My Married man confinded in me a lot and even told me of the affairs he had on his wife,, so after finding out on sunday just gone that he had been still seeing her I told her of all the affairs he had on her, Do you think this was wrong of me? He got so upset last night he ended it with me for telling her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): Who cares why he ended it with you...the guy is MARRIED and he was playing you the entire time. He has not intentions to leave his wife for you or anyone else. Don't stree yourself over this guy...you may have developed feelings for him, but you got to get over him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): at least you knew he was not lying about affairs despite being married. he had so much of disrespect for you admitting that he is the cheating kind. and you thought oyu were the special other woman?he ended it with you becuase he was busted. if you take him back you only got yourself to blame. you knew he was married from the start.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2010): You are begging for a emotional rollercoaster! Run!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (11 August 2010):
 What a player, get rid unless you enjoy pain.
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reader, xAx  +, writes (11 August 2010):
 I don't think that's wrong at all. The wife needs to know his true colours.
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